No one ever hears "the rest of the story" of Cinderella. Life for her was not even close to what the story would lead us to believe. Just because we’re members of the Church and have temple blessings, we still have to work. The world holds the view of "get married (or not – just live together) and grow apart, doing your own things." The Gospel view is that through committed marriage, a couple can grow to become one. This should be our goal.