David counsels, "Delight thyself alas in the Lord; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart. Commit thy ways unto the lord; trust also in him, and he shall bring it to pass" (Psalms 37: 4-5). Make the principles in the Family Proclamation a daily practice while nurturing charity (Mor 7:45-46). By doing this we will know in our heart and minds what to think and how to act; thus "We give ourselves away by the words we say." This proven formula will give us the communications skills which will foster mutual understanding, more respect, less conflict, and increase of love.